Continuing my story: Be careful what you ask for, for you might really get it
I always have the habit of imagining things and day dreaming, building castles in the air. It was and continues to be my favorite pastime. In my dream world, I am everything that I am not in reality – mature, sophisticated, educated, cultured, witty, friendly and a warm person who gets along with everybody. Well I am sure we all indulge in this kind of wishful dreaming. Which is good in a way up to a certain point. Unbelievable as it might seem, that’s what happened in my life. I literally got what I had asked for..... but wait, before you jump with joy and relief, ( that at last the story is over) life has lots of twists and turns before it lets such things happen.
Not long after that day, my father did get a phone call from this man who introduced himself as a business man from Bombay Madras U.S. Bombay
Of all the horoscopes thus in the hands of this businessman, only mine matched with his son’s. So here he was asking my father whether he could come and meet us, ( just the way I had imagined) since he was returning to Bombay
Well wait till you hear the rest of the story and the other surprises which were in store for us.
Well wait till you hear the rest of the story and the other surprises which were in store for us.
The boy was an IIT graduate with a doctorate from the great and venerable United States of America Madras Madras Madras
The day finally arrived when the boy along with his parents was coming to see me. I was in a daze, as though in a dream world, since contrary to all previous experiences, things were going without a hitch as per my imagination in this case. But at the back of my mind, there was a constant fear that there could always be a slip between the cup and the lip.
The party arrived at the appointed time on a Friday, and were climbing the stairs leading up to our home on the first floor of the Besant Nagar colony where we lived. I was looking out from the window, to catch the first glimpse of the boy as he got off the car. But alas! the person I saw accompanying the business man, looked just like his father, only a little taller than him : you see that business man was only about 5ft tall. All my hopes came crashing down, for despite his qualifications and other accomplishments, I just could not imagine myself married to someone who was shorter than me. Things are different today when even short men like Aamir Khan have so many women falling for them : what with body building, physical fitness and what not, etc., all men who are fit irrespective of their height look good and attractive. But not so about thirty years ago.
Coming back to my story, I was in a a terrible fix now : why do such things always happen to me only?
There was no rational answer to that question. I was called in and introduced to everybody and would you believe that the person I thought was the boy was introduced to me as his uncle. Well there seemed to be no end to the miracles! The boy, whom I had missed catching from my earlier spying, actually was nice, looked very decent , cultured, well-mannered and was nerdishly quiet and he was not short. There was something nice about him, about the way he smiled which endeared him to me. I was commanded by my father (not by the Boy’s party) to play a tune on the guitar to display my various skills. I was fed up singing songs and playing the guitar to every Tom, Dick and Harry. In fact I used to get pretty upset with my dad for making me do that every time even while the concerned people never really cared for such things. My father like most parents had to always show off his children’s talents.
Now I was in a fix, for I had one favorite song, which I was always ready to sing, whenever the request came from either the boy's party or from my father. Soon I was to notice that whenever I sang that song, the boy's party literally ran away, giving some vague reasons for not wanting to pursue the matter further. (the song: Na Tum Janu na Hum Jaane, a famous Hindi song picturized on Dev Anand and Wahida Rehaman). Don't get me wrong, I was not a bad singer, it was just superstition on my part, thinking that by singing that song, somehow the alliance would not click. ( For the bell in my heart never rang for any of those boys).
I went in and came back with my guitar, and just decided to play some song and be done with the whole thing, I did not play the song that made people run away, for I liked this boy, and had no intention of losing him. However, I was very nervous, as I played another song in the guitar, for I had no idea whether it would do the magic, I had to take the risk... the song I played was the very famous, romantic song of Guru Dutt, 'Chaudivin ka Chand'. This song is sung by a man to his lady love, but it was okay, for I was only playing it on the guitar.
After the so called music session, I left the room, only to be followed by my father. I told him, that I liked the boy. Relieved to hear no objections from me, he said, that he would inform them and leave it to them to move forward. (Probably he also must have felt that, if we told them that we liked the boy, it might psychologically influence the boy also to decide favorably, now as you know one had to try all the tricks of the trade if one really wanted something very badly).
As was the usual practice, the boy's side said they would let us know and left.
As was the usual practice, the boy's side said they would let us know and left.
Anyway, within an hour, we got a call from the boy's parents saying they also liked the girl and would like to take the matter further. They said that the boy wanted to have a word with the girl. Now knowing me very well, my father had strictly told me to keep my mouth shut, and only answer to the point. Anyway, I had no need to worry for the boy also seemed to be the "to the point case", for he just asked me whether I was also satisfied with them, thereby leaving no room for anything more.
My father as you all know, didn't want to let this fish from his net, decided it was better to have the engagement while they were there, so as to officially seal the deal, without further delay. It was decided that the engagement would take place on the 24th of August a Sunday, itself for they were to leave the same night by the night train to Bombay.
The engagement went off very well without any hitch, to think my parents had to run around and make all the arrangements at such short notice.
Well, while the refreshments were being served, my mother got a chance to casually ask the boy's aunt, whether the boy was into drinking, smoking, and eating non-veg, bla bla bla..... and the aunt threw a bomb, in fact threw many mini bombs .... saying......
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| This picture was taken in Portugal by a Photo Journalist, for she liked my bright colored dress very much and wanted to use it in some magazine showcasing Indian dress. |
Thank you.
to be continued....
