tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post7972478713980343289..comments2024-01-03T10:23:05.876+05:30Comments on Time,Time..I have all the time --: How I Met My Husband......."being on the horns of a dilemma" part 4Rama Ananthhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00962222316822524699noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-69547707154079226282011-11-26T09:52:08.003+05:302011-11-26T09:52:08.003+05:30If army life sounds so disturbing, its because the...If army life sounds so disturbing, its because they are doing a service to us, nation, so they must be respected for that,<br />But enjoying the killing and then eating, it all is very repulsive to me, I would never or could nevr live with such man..personally I dont like drinking also as a regular habit.Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-37144174381593418772011-11-25T10:18:33.243+05:302011-11-25T10:18:33.243+05:30I am just amazed that you had such a clear thinkin...I am just amazed that you had such a clear thinking mind at that age! If I had had such thoughts, I would have ended it there too. Not because of the mismatch , but because of the gut feeling. It generally is right!Jyothihttp://www.randomjuxtapositions.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-47537521598075416762011-11-22T18:53:23.354+05:302011-11-22T18:53:23.354+05:30thz interesting....suspense suspense yes itz good ...thz interesting....suspense suspense yes itz good 4r a fairy tale...Nishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18366758002335312917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-2728646286241681782011-11-22T13:12:38.095+05:302011-11-22T13:12:38.095+05:30His honesty is what I would fall for :) Simply sup...His honesty is what I would fall for :) Simply superb narration rama, enjoying each part of the story and waiting for the next ......Ruprekhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02798091874208338723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-81656881683408036482011-11-21T10:53:52.865+05:302011-11-21T10:53:52.865+05:30He is probably not your types.. waiting to know wh...He is probably not your types.. waiting to know what really happened Rama.. Cheers :)Preethi Vaidya (Woodooz)http://woodooz.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-9480298024926789982011-11-20T12:43:08.517+05:302011-11-20T12:43:08.517+05:30Vasant: It was the Army man's father who was i...Vasant: It was the Army man's father who was in the Forest department.I think you have not read it properly.Rama Ananthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962222316822524699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-78854513437360785052011-11-20T12:40:20.942+05:302011-11-20T12:40:20.942+05:30Nice to know that ur dad was in the Forest service...Nice to know that ur dad was in the Forest service...which state cadre was he? my last assignment was in the forest dept & i met a lot of Forest officersVasant Prabhuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12345995688262661077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-24363116236101690742011-11-20T10:19:54.481+05:302011-11-20T10:19:54.481+05:30I appreciate his honesty but well, he is not for m...I appreciate his honesty but well, he is not for me.. I cant kill a mosquito!<br />But, yes, there is a chance of him learning his lesson and become humane..padmajahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18297562916603110230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-43835801806382903632011-11-19T20:57:59.721+05:302011-11-19T20:57:59.721+05:30Again Suspense Oh no! I am sure you might not have...Again Suspense Oh no! I am sure you might not have married this Army person.Waiting for your next post.SVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10349848147416261563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-78775950174641150232011-11-18T19:34:47.558+05:302011-11-18T19:34:47.558+05:30very descriptive and nice read... but if the perso...very descriptive and nice read... but if the person was not too my liking i would have refused.. my parents were liberal and would have accepted.Ashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01853943313848326731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-68674054637960602802011-11-18T18:03:30.134+05:302011-11-18T18:03:30.134+05:30well, if these are the traits that you can't l...well, if these are the traits that you can't live with and if you see them as vices then surely life will not be easy adapting. However, if you feel that there are qualities like openness, honesty, communication, connect etc. which are scoring over others, then you must take a call. Life is always a balancing act, and no one gets everything they desire or look for :).Rachnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02275266551382931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-37372349097497202902011-11-18T09:54:23.720+05:302011-11-18T09:54:23.720+05:30Rama this is one of the really well written post w...Rama this is one of the really well written post with all the elements of intrigue!Great..Rahul Bhatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09690287853990880735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-9623111641395309872011-11-17T21:59:43.554+05:302011-11-17T21:59:43.554+05:30Awww!!Awww!!Linhyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04118830186067043342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-50357666886325485162011-11-17T11:51:12.529+05:302011-11-17T11:51:12.529+05:30no comments!no comments!M R Anandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08908196023790374529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-5894244169692958472011-11-17T02:30:02.410+05:302011-11-17T02:30:02.410+05:30Yes I agree with Kala - the suspense is killing :-...Yes I agree with Kala - the suspense is killing :-). With so much negative vibes - I would have dropped him.Shanthihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15604054222489190884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-68501743356984934902011-11-17T02:03:18.013+05:302011-11-17T02:03:18.013+05:30hmmm...can't be so sure what I would have done...hmmm...can't be so sure what I would have done....but again I m hoping next post will be finale:)Nayanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16039348356185862912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-9327589489631955622011-11-16T23:33:16.619+05:302011-11-16T23:33:16.619+05:30Oh..how sad. If i were in such a situation, would ...Oh..how sad. If i were in such a situation, would have somehow persuaded my parents to drop the wedding. He definitely was being honest with you, but you need not be the 'therapy' for his addictions! What happened, then???Cloud Ninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02382499546129406231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-56184624440503728512011-11-16T22:59:21.420+05:302011-11-16T22:59:21.420+05:30Aargh!! The suspense is killing me:) Not sure wha...Aargh!! The suspense is killing me:) Not sure what I would have done in your place.My Inspired Realityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02610154453483501699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-22853653878487964612011-11-16T22:51:52.882+05:302011-11-16T22:51:52.882+05:30Oh my I m biting my nails wanting to know if u cho...Oh my I m biting my nails wanting to know if u chose him or not. Do you have the. Boldness to disappoint all by calling it off .... Oh myAnjulihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02540340538869180615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-14846751441193141662011-11-16T21:55:34.555+05:302011-11-16T21:55:34.555+05:30Yes, Amrit, everyone knows about Army life,however...Yes, Amrit, everyone knows about Army life,however, instead of keeping his vices to himself, he came out with it in a honest way. I do appreciate his honesty, for at that time,one must remember, that he too was young, and certainly not drunk,and I was sure that it all came about naturally, he did not have some diabolical plan to reveal his addictions to me and shock me<br />Well, frankly, nobody was my type, but marriages are not based on just finding our type it is more than that,it is very rare to find someone of our type.Rama Ananthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00962222316822524699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-73067581748468150512011-11-16T21:51:22.342+05:302011-11-16T21:51:22.342+05:30Hmmm !! atleast you have some reasons now to let y...Hmmm !! atleast you have some reasons now to let your heart feel free and give it one more chance to ring bells :)Sarmisthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07702700747223535286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558799463956912149.post-67456196522188673012011-11-16T20:39:33.215+05:302011-11-16T20:39:33.215+05:30It seems like a mismatch. First conversation is al...It seems like a mismatch. First conversation is always pleasing and no one finds out the reality. Army guy told you about booze because that is common in army party and everyone knows it. He did not have to tell. Also the job is transferable. So far based on this conversation I cannot conclude he is being totally honest - it is all superficial discussion.<br /><br />Obviously there was something missing which you did not know. I guess the missing part was compatibility. He was not your type...Amrithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16023510703283897521noreply@blogger.com